When I was a teenager in the now apparently olden days of the early 2000's, we had a variety of tech, but it was a bit less ubiquitous. Cell phones weren't the smartphones we now know. Downloading music via the internet happened, but was more of a dirty little illegal thing compared to buying CDs or burning a mix of songs for your friends. Plus, we often just...hung out. We'd just lounge around a park, sit at a coffee place, aimlessly wander the Mall, lounge at an arcade, or otherwise go out and do random stuff. We Millennials weren't exactly like when Generation X were kids or teenagers, as they'd literally get thrown out of the house by their parents for hours upon hours (told to just come back by the time the streetlights flickered on), but we definitely were out and about more than a lot of Gen Z or younger kiddos. Some people say the ability of teenagers to sit at home and talk with all their friends online, play games with them, and so forth has created less desire to go out and be together in person. However, columnist Rikki Schlott over at the, "New York Post," of all places, hits the nail on the head with her opinion piece, "Teens are being banned from bowling alleys, skating rinks, malls, and theme parks — no wonder they’re on their phones all day."
The NY Post tends to be one of the most intentionally provocative, scandal-focused, tabloid-adjacent papers and websites out there, but when somebody's right, they're right. So many places that used to be hot spots for teenagers to just chill and spend time together now won't even allow anybody under 18 without a parent/legal guardian to be present at certain times (or all the time). Theme parks forbid a small group of teens. Malls will let a sixteen-year-old work in a store, but not go shopping around by themselves. Teens might have a couple of friends with a license and a car they can borrow to drive...but where is there to go? Some movie theaters don't want unaccompanied minors, and even something as simple that I did with friends when I was a teen, like tooling around our town's massive Walmart (there really wasn't much to do in Cortland) might be forbidden in some cities if those teens lack a grown-up by their side.
Yes, teenagers can get in trouble or cause a ruckus. They can be rude, loud, disruptive, or cause a scene. That said, there are plenty of adults doing that all the time (whether sober, drunk, or whatever). Plenty of teenagers are perfectly behaved and polite, and maybe would love the chance to spend a couple of hours at a roller rink with friends, aimlessly zooming around. More and more places don't want teens present, and bluntly, plenty of parents are paranoid about their kiddos going out and doing something without constant supervision or checking in with home on their phone every 15 minutes. When I was a teenager, we at least had the opportunity to choose between staying home and playing a PlayStation 2 or going and killing a couple of hours at Frank and Mary's diner--eating some cheap all-day breakfast--and paradoxically having a lot of fun doing basically nothing. God, I miss that place, and I'm glad it existed long enough that I was able to introduce Samii to it on a couple of visits back to Cortland.
Teens today have a lot fewer opportunities to simply go out and socialize with each other (unless a parent is essentially standing nearby). Sometimes older folks will complain about, "Kids these days," and how easy they have it. That is true in some regards when it comes to how simple it is to access information (asking an AI about an old news story is a lot simpler than scrolling through microfilm), but when it comes to opportunities for social interaction beyond the internet, the youth definitely have a lot fewer opportunities available. I feel bad for, "The kids today," in that regard. I may have had to flip through a phonebook to get the number for a local pizza joint instead of asking Siri, but at least my friends and I could chill at the park, eating that pizza and not get in trouble for just being present there, minding our own business. Times have definitely changed.

















